yep i can never be arsed...by the time i have got some peace and dd(12mth) is asleep i am really not in the mood!!! and to think i was that bad before dd that dp would turn me down (too tired etc!!) we have been decussing no 2 and i am sure the main reason he wants to go for it because its guaranteed sex lol
..... i cant get turned on and most of the time DP be moaning (in a nice way) and say to me ill see you in bed later .... 1 in the morning i come up as baba just fallen asleep and DP is snoring - cant win!!!!
it took us ages to get back into the swing of things. dh was always up for it buut my hormones went completely haywire for a good 2 years post dd. things have picked up in the last few months, i seem to have rediscovered my libido which has led to all round !
still not back to how things were, but i doubt things will ever be as 'experimental' as they were due to the fact that we just don't have the time these days.
try not to panic about it, the more pressure you pile on, the less inclined you'll be to get down and dirty