Am reading "What Mothers Do (especially when it looks like nothing)" by Naomi Stadlen. Has anyone else read this? It talks about what we do and how we feel, but in a very realistic way. It is based on lots of discussions with mothers and has chapters on comforting, how everything we do has to be interupptable, how much of a shock it all is and so on.
Ds is nearly 3 months and I feel utterly relieved to have found a book that leaves me feeling that I am doing things right rather than not quite well enough.