I need to know how everyone else is coping with all this terrible news. Sounds pathetic, in the light of what other people are going through right now, but it's getting on top of me. I don't know what the correct response should be anymore.
I've given money, I've cried and cried, I've woken up in the night with my head full of terrible images, and then I've cried some more. And all I'm left with is helplessness and a terrible fear/guilt/insecurity about the world I'm bringing my children up in. I'm talking not just about the tsunami, but the usual charity pushes at this time of year: Aids orphans in Africa, the Bam anniversary. It feels like an onslaught, and i don't know how to get through it at the moment.
What is the appropriate response? How deeply are we meant to 'feel', or not feel? I don't understand.
is it OK to turn away from it at a certain point, for self-protection? And how do you justify that to yourself?
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adrift · 02/01/2005 11:18
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