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does porn bother you ?

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nikcola Wed 29-Dec-04 22:28:13

wold you be angry with your dp/dh if you found out he had been looking at porn on the net?

im having a debate with my friend

hunkermunker Wed 29-Dec-04 22:31:25

Would depend on the nature of it. No problem with women (but not huge amounts of porn or saving lots to the hard drive, that kind of thing - nothing obsessive), many, many more problems with men, DH out in the cold and looking for somewhere else to live if involving animals or children (actually living in prison if it involves the latter two).

misdee Wed 29-Dec-04 22:31:30

nope. well depends on my hormones tbh!

coppertop Wed 29-Dec-04 22:31:43

I wouldn't mind as long as it wasn't really dodgy stuff and that he made sure that ds1&2 didn't see it.

janeybops Wed 29-Dec-04 22:33:30

no problem with me within certain limits

mumofelise Wed 29-Dec-04 22:34:08

no, as far as i can see, women make all the money so don't see the exploitation of women aspect. what ever floats your boat as long as nothing illegal or harmful.

Blossomhill Wed 29-Dec-04 22:34:17

No, not at all.

jampots Wed 29-Dec-04 22:34:31

i wouldn't be happy if he was looking at it on my comp as my children use it but dont have a prob with it as such

tillykins Wed 29-Dec-04 22:36:02

I wouldn't like it very much, even if it wasn't really really graphic
Infact, I think I would be upset if my husband did that - though I have let him keep his Kylie calendar
(In the garage )

paolosgirl Wed 29-Dec-04 22:39:28

Depends what he was looking at. The problem with a lot of sites is that you don't know the age of the girls you're looking at, what exploitation has been involved (it does exist), what criminal activity (if any) it is funding etc etc.

Dreams Wed 29-Dec-04 23:12:43

nope i dont agree with it why would he need to look at other women when he can look at me

Blossomhill Wed 29-Dec-04 23:13:32

I do find porn completely normal and natural!

Discoinferno Wed 29-Dec-04 23:14:11

I would be very annoyed if I caught my Dh with any form of porn. Its exploitation in any form.

Blossomhill Wed 29-Dec-04 23:17:29

My opinion is that it's natural for men to look at porn and if that's what dh wants to do that's fine (although I don't know if he does tbh)

tillykins Wed 29-Dec-04 23:18:19

I didn't think of it like that discoinferno, I just wouldn't like him to do it

Discoinferno Wed 29-Dec-04 23:18:26

whats natural about men looking at naked bodies?

hunkermunker Wed 29-Dec-04 23:19:45

Why would I need to look at Galaxy when I can eat Green & Black's? As long as I don't actually eat Galaxy, if you catch my drift...

Blossomhill Wed 29-Dec-04 23:20:49

Discoinferno - As I said in my opinion it's fun. Your opinion is your opinion!

Discoinferno Wed 29-Dec-04 23:21:50

Jeez BH I was only discussing no need to jump down my throat.

Blossomhill Wed 29-Dec-04 23:23:03

Sorry discoinferno - didn't mean for it to sound aggresive The point I was trying to make is that we all think differentl [smile

Discoinferno Wed 29-Dec-04 23:26:06

point taken

SPARKLER1clausiscomingtotown Wed 29-Dec-04 23:26:10

oh BH not another one - I'm afraid to open another thread

SPARKLER1clausiscomingtotown Wed 29-Dec-04 23:27:14

It does bother me just slightly if I know of dh checking out the porn alone - but will admit it can be quite fun sometimes as a couple. say no more

Blossomhill Wed 29-Dec-04 23:27:40

I think that sometimes things can come over as being aggresive as this is obviously only a substitute for RL chat isn't it. With typing you don't get a feel for how the person is really expressing themselves.
Sorry but I have had a few drinks too

Blossomhill Wed 29-Dec-04 23:28:02

I agree Sparkler it can be fun

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