Husband sexting

[k582]

Hiya everyone this will probably be a long post so here goes I caught my husband sexting a few years ago just before we got married anyway I decided to forgive him but I've recently found out a couple of days ago he is up to it again so I got my best friend to set up a fake profile on an app his constantly on and keeps logging out of and basically he told her he is single and has no kids I really don't know if I can get over it a third time also he is so selfish does hardly anything for me or the kids and has no empathy I just want to feel loved I have not said anything as I want to get xmas out the way for my boys etc I really don't know what to do sorry for long rant I just hope someone else has been through this and can help

[AdaUserName92]

Hi. So sorry that you are experiencing this. In such cases the reason for such behaviour is not the partner that is being let down. The person who is being unfaithful is usually going through personal issues, that obviously doesn't excuse it. However it is important to realise that it is not you. I think maybe if you want to stay with him then try couples counselling but make sure the counsellor is someone you both connect with. Can I also recommend looking up esther peel on YouTube. She is a relationship counsellor who specialises in infidelity. She has some great advice. It is very strong and mature of you to put a brave face for your children. Also it is your decision to stay or leave. Many people have opinions but they don't live your life. Try to take everything with a pinch of salt. This is directory for counsellors near you

www.counselling-directory.org.uk/

[FiveStoryFire]

For info, I think @AdaUserName92 was referring to Esther Perel on YouTube. She is definitely very good:


https://www.youtube.com/user/perelesther