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Juann00 Fri 12-Jul-19 17:50:02

What do I do? On/off partner for 4 years. At the moment we are very close friends, I know he fancy’s me. We have only been seeing each other on a Saturday for dinner. He always says how nice I look etc..... if I suggest anything he almost always say he’s watching cricket or food shopping etc... nothing important where as I always agree to go to his for dinner if asked. He will passionately kiss me as I’m leaving and one things leads to another but he never mentions anything about a relationship which he knows I want. Do I just back off and move on or carry on hoping he will change his mind? He has no one else, and was engaged 20 years ago which he refuses to talk about, his partner called it off at the last minute. He has not had a long term relationship since . I’ve never met any of his family or friends, although I don’t think he has many as he never really goes out only to work. Other than this he is a very caring kind man, just very private. He didn’t want me to move in with him when I lost my flat as he said my 2 kids may ,at some point want to come back and live with me . They both have their own rented flats. What would you do?

Juann00 Fri 12-Jul-19 18:00:16

I forgot to say we are both in our 50s

Nicksmama Sat 13-Jul-19 01:29:38

Girl. Move on. U deserve more than a part time lover n friend.

Juann00 Sat 13-Jul-19 07:24:32

Thanks , in my heart I knew that was the answer

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