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Possible abuse?

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Tinkay · 10/12/2018 09:39

Yesterday I was having a conversation with my husband, it got out of hand, he threw his half filled yogurt pot at me in front of our 2 children (aged 9 and 5). It went everywhere. He went out the room. After about 15 mins he apologised but said I made him angry. I don't know what to do or think?!! Please help

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DRE56322 · 15/12/2018 00:18

I don't have any real advice (I hope someone comes along soon who does) but that is awful. Even if "you made him angry", it doesn't justify him throwing things at you. Has he done anything like this before?

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PrickWhittington · 15/12/2018 00:23

I'd call this abusive yes, and horribly disrespectful to do it in front of your children as well. I'd be worried about him putting it down to 'you making him angry' - that is not good at all, it is an abuser's way of thinking and I'd be worried that this incident would be the start of behaviour that could escalate.
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Have you thought of asking for this to be moved to the relationships section? I think you'd get a lot more replies and help there Flowers

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Weenurse · 15/12/2018 00:27

He needs to own his feelings

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giftsonthebrain · 15/12/2018 00:28

certainly intimidating

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