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Eugh my SO stinks

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awesomeness Thu 15-Mar-18 00:22:24

Seriously! He won't shower.

I'm in bed, he's next to me and he stinks and his feet are awful!

I told him to go get a shower his feet stank and he's too busy on ps4

Says he'll get one in morning!

It's vile!

Ladies I can't cope

I hate him right now because of an unrelated non stinky reason

But this is just icing on the cake!

He also thinks it's funny coz he cant smell it!


Rant over

NoCureForLove Thu 15-Mar-18 00:26:35

He's quite the catch op!

NotAllTimsWearCapes Thu 15-Mar-18 00:28:42

Is there another bed you can go to? I seriously couldn’t ever have sex with someone who thought it was ok to get into bed shared with another person being so disgustingly dirty. How did it get to this stage OP?

ElderflowerWaterIsDelish Mon 19-Mar-18 02:55:46

If he won't get in the shower will he at least agree to rubbing a wet soapy cloth over himself to remove the sweat/dirt/grease/smell?...

Ickyockycocky Mon 19-Mar-18 03:54:59

Disgusting. I don’t think you should put up with this a minute longer. Tell him to sleep on the sofa and then tell him he either starts washing or it’s over.

sanityisamyth Mon 19-Mar-18 04:31:54

My ExH stank. Refused to shower and didn't brush his teeth. Ever. He's an ExH for a reason ...

awesomeness Mon 19-Mar-18 08:00:43

I slept in my daughters bed last night, he's had 1 shower in a week and a half.

I shower every day, twice if I've been the gym, done a lot of cleaning ect

He never used to be like this, he always used to smell nice

I'm currently stripping the bed and I'm going to boil wash it all

He gets the sofa. I've told him he's not getting in unless freshly showered

expatinscotland Mon 19-Mar-18 08:02:32

He'd be out the door. Yes, he really would.

LoniceraJaponica Mon 19-Mar-18 08:04:59

Why are you with him?

awesomeness Mon 19-Mar-18 08:09:25

He never used to be like this lonicera it's a recent thing, maybe last few weeks..

Kids are have sleep over at nannas tonight so it may have to be show down sad

MarthasGinYard Mon 19-Mar-18 08:10:09


Greenglassteacup Mon 19-Mar-18 08:14:42

Ugh how repulsive

Greenglassteacup Mon 19-Mar-18 08:15:03

What is SO?

awesomeness Mon 19-Mar-18 08:26:04

Significant other

Boil wash on!

I just don't get it sad he never used to be like this. Part of me thinks is it me? Is that why he's stopped bothering

pollywollydoodle Mon 19-Mar-18 08:40:39

If poor self care is a recent problem , could he be depressed?

awesomeness Mon 19-Mar-18 09:08:49

I'm not sure polly

He's got a promotion at work, which means more responsibility, and I know it's not an easy company to work for (I used to do the same job)

Just getting me down and effecting the relationship as I just don't want to be around him.

makingmiracles Mon 19-Mar-18 09:12:23

Well if he’s not careful work will pull him up on it, there’s only so much lynx can hide and mixed with week old sweat it’s an unmistakable stench, not nice for people working around him.
Lay down the law, it’s not a massive deal having a wash, in and out in 5 minutes so can’t see why he has the issue with it.

awesomeness Mon 19-Mar-18 09:28:38

When I suggest getting a shower all I get is....

"I'll do it later"

"I can't be bothered right now"

"It's too late now" (yet he'd been sat on his arse for 2 hours)

I'm very reactive ti smells, theu make me feel ill very easily, or give me a migraine ect

Think I'm going to have to sit him down later and put him straight with what needs to happen

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awesomeness Mon 19-Mar-18 10:32:22

Excuse me?

awesomeness Mon 19-Mar-18 10:37:57

Can I have proof my profile name has ever posted anything similar

BulletWithABun Mon 19-Mar-18 10:41:05

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awesomeness Mon 19-Mar-18 10:43:55

Id love to know where I've been constantly writing the same stuff and trolling

I'm not even 100% sure what a troll is.

I've contacted mumsnet as I'm sure they can see I've had no name changes and haven't posted anything similar anywhere else on here

AnoiaUnstickMyDrawers Mon 19-Mar-18 10:45:52

Especially since AS shows a pretty normal posting history.

OP is there anything going on that might be related? Pp mentioned depression. Or might he be deliberately winding you up?

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