Hi guys wanting some advice people that are going to be mean don’t bother having an input.
Hi I’m new to all this pregnancy stuff just wondering if you mams could give me some advice as I’ve just made a member and I’ve previously sat and read peoples talks here goes.
I’m 14 weeks pregnant and I’m wanting to know about women letting there partners party?
Where both in full time work, saving for our own house & child ourselves.
My partner wants to go out when all the ‘lads’ go out! I haven’t got a problem with him going out, it’s the fact he blows lots of money for example Boxing Day £280 😳 and he gets that drunk he don’t know where he his, looses his phone ecig money more or less every time he goes out. I didn’t mind it before but obviously our positions have changed as we have to save a lot of money! And I’m also not spending a penny of our savings unless I need to. His friends think I’m stopping him! I’ve said I’m not stopping him it’s the way that he does it, we’ve had miscarriages before this pregnancy and I’ve told him what if you get that drunk and I need you or something happens then what? His friends think I control him, only because there wife’s, partners let them get away with it example there always gambling taking drugs and going out constantly even though they have kids houses etc! there expecting my partner to do the same, but when I question my partner about the money situation, he goes sure we can afford it rachel! Just asking other mams ther opinions and how to approach this situation.
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Rachelw123 · 10/01/2018 00:56
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