I am really sorry as I don't know what else to do. I have a 5yr & 3yr boys, which are hard work on there own but my partner is helpful when around as he works stupid hours. I appreciate all that he does for us but sometimes I feel as though he doesn't want us or me. He can be very short and snapping in what he says to me and makes me feel like crap and useless. I do ask for help around the house as being a full time mum is hard all day, only silly things like washing up after dinner or putting the kids toys away whilst I cook dinner. He moans you could do this tomorrow whilst I am at work. I would love for him to do what I do in a week to see its not all sofa sitting and watching TV. I just want to cry
I completely understand.. My DH works 13 hour night shifts and I work part time, have PND and I have DS 4 and DD 8 months to look after. It can be so so difficult, and he hasn't got a clue how hard it actually can be. Not much help I know..
Clearly you aren't happy in the relationship. You don't feel loved or respected. He shouldn't be making you feel this way. Have you tried telling him how you feel? If yes and he doesn't care, are you prepared to call it a day?
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