Never been so horny what the hell!?

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fawkes182 Wed 03-Feb-16 11:08:00

Did anyone else have this after having their children??

When I had my ds1 I was n a violent relationship n so depressed I basically shut off.. he was a beautiful accident and I didn't want him not cos I didn't love him but cos I didn't want him to have this monster for a dad. But he gave me the courage to leave.. he was the beginning of me waking up. So throughout the pregnancy I was in a state of shock n when he was born it took me a while to adjust but I didn't want anything to do with his dad.. we where together but as I say he was violent and controlling n the sex was always forced.. that was how ds1 was conceived as well. So after he was born I became protective n as I say over time I got the courage to leave cos of my beautiful boy.

He's now 9, 10 this year. I met the love of my life 7 years ago. He became a fab dad to ds1. He looked after us both.. but due to his background he didn't want to rush into kids etc which I was fine about as we wanted to be sure we were right for each other. I knew he was the one when I met him but he needed to make sure. But I must admit by year 4 I was wondering if we would ever progress.. started to feel like we were in a rut kinda thing? Finally year 6 he proposed so I felt finally we were getting somewhere and he agreed to try for a baby cos as much as getting married would have been nice it's so much money n we can get married anytime but kids are more important and tie us together. So ds2 was born before xmas.

Now I suffer with anxiety.. my mood has been all over the place since having him plus I lost my nan before he was born which has really torn me apart. I knew after having I wouldn't be interested in sex I wasnt at all during pregnancy. But since having ds2 me and partener cannot keep our hands off each other!! Ds2 is 7 weeks and still Im horny 24/7 I don't know if this is hormones or if this is part of my anxoety/depression cos I hate my partener going to work it makes me panic n this is kinda being close to him.. or if we are just happy and ment to be and this is what it's spose to be like.

Having all these Tom hardy films coming out isn't helping!!! OMG he is fit in legend!!!!

Did anyone else have this? How did you feel after baby? Xxxx

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