I have one ds who is 26 months old and another baby on the way due at the end of March. I am 35 years old and feeling a little knackered! Definitely looking forward to meeting the baby but also to getting my body back and keeping it mine thereafter - ie. no more babies. I used to think I wanted three, and who knows, maybe I will again, but at the moment I think after two it will be time to love the two we have got madly and also get on with my own life when they go to school etc...
Then there I was at a bus stop yesterday listening to a conversation between a woman who must have been about 40 years old and two 19 year old girls. They were comparing size of family and it really put me to shame. The 40 year old had something like 10 sisters and 2 brothers and even the 19 year old of a different generation had something like 5 brothers and 2 sisters...
I suppose in my defense for feeling knackered with almost 2 is that the mothers must have started having kids a lot younger (like around 18) and also must have had more extended family help around??? Also, all those kids must have entertained each other with the big ones looking after the little ones. It must have been a really different life with much less emphasis on drop ins etc... and more on just playing with your brothers and sisters and life at home. I can't help feeling though that those mothers must have been totatlly selfless...
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Conversation overheard at a bus stop made me feel like a total wuss!
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arabella2 · 10/02/2004 12:37
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