..with resentment.
We live in a cul-de-sac and all the kids play together all the time. Which is fantastic. Especially when it's sunny 'cos they are all outside getting loads of exercise and fresh air. But when it's wet somehow they all end up here. And I'm beginning to resent it. Have a feeling that all the other parents reached this point a few years back which is why they don't allow other kids in. Perhaps I should be stricter but I do appreciate that it's great for my children to have others to play with. And they do like to make me feel guilty if ever I say no.
BUT......I have just cleaned the house (which is a nightmare with 3 very messy kids when I work most of the time). I left for school to pick them up and the place was spotless. Withinn 10 mins of getting home there were 3 knocks on the bl*dy door and now I have 6 kids instead of 3. The front room was full of discarded shoes and coats, all the PS2 games were all over the floor (again!!!!) and now they are all up in my DD's room and by the noise I would guess it's being trashed. I have called DD and DS#1 downstairs to tidy up their coats and shoes hoping that it would strike a chord with the others too...but it didn't. I am so angry atm that I'm sure they can feel the heat rising through the floor . I don't want to say anything because I have a feeling that I'm being petty and my children are happy but this situation is really starting to wind me up. All the children here are nice enough individually but together they take on the character of a cloud of locusts I have had my moments before now when I've had a generalised shout at everyone 'cos of the noise or mess and they've all sloped off leaving me feeling guilty. But how come I'm the only parent on the street to be in this position. Must be a bldy pushover..... Do I really have to start playing the bad guy to get everyone to stop taking the pss??
....need [resigned shrug] emoticon.
Anyway...thanks for that. Feel better now...
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joelalie · 19/05/2006 18:09
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