Well, I guess there are histories in Explorer and things which he can use to support his case that Carla is his wife, and if, like most of us, she logs in and asks to be remembered for 30 days, then that will be stored as a cookie somewhere.
Carla, I am very sorry to hear this. I think you need to try and ascertain how much he actually knows about your use of Mumsnet. Not easy I know when your situation at home is so fraught. But you must have an idea of how IT-savvy he actually is and whether he is talking through the seat of his pants.
A name change RIGHT NOW is in order if you want to keep posting, and can I suggest that you don't log in for now, ie, don't use the ThreadsI'mOn function. If you are prompted to log in, don't click Remembermeforthirtydays.
Ah, cross-posted. Do please change your name and consider whether you'd like your posts under your real name deleted. Then if he has not yet thought to print off his "evidence" you have made it much harder to get it.
Not sure about the headache, Carla, but you won't be the first and it will be for good reason. I am sure if you explain why you want this done they will be very helpful.
After you have changed your name, you might want to watch threads where you post a little more often than usual, as someone might say..."Notcarla...are you Carla under a new name?", not realising that this could cause you more grief. You might want to think of a way of alerting Mners it's you without alerting your h.
Greensleeves had to do a similar forced namechange a while back and hers seems to have worked. Good luck!
Sounds like an empty threat to me tbh. What is he using against you and why ? He can't prove it is you posting or that what you have posted is factual. What would he be going to court for ? Can't believe anyone in a divorce court is going to be interested in it, tbh isn't it all no blame these days.
ok don't know what your messages say as they've now all been deleted, but I'm guessing from responses that your dh is taking you to court over something you've done/said on here? presumably the fact that you've posted on here that he uses internet porn? prey tell what is he going to take you to court for exactly? I think he's just shouting the odds, he's been caught using internet porn and he maybe doesn't like the fact that you've told the world wide web that that he likes porn, but unless it's categorically untrue, there's nothing he can do.