hi im new here, just had the day from hell,
ive has custerdy of my 2 children for 6 years, j was 4 and l was 3 when i got custerdy though the courts buy was of cafcas s7 report in my favor,
since then ex has tryed and faiuld 2 time to get residence back, ive been a great perant giving the children what they need and kids very happy and school happy with them,
well ex tryed again to get custerdy, cafcas was asked to do a report witch they did, september 2012 we went to court for fine out outcome of s7 report,
report said children should stay with me and no shared custerdy or custerdy she be given, it did say that children have ask to see ex more, witch i agreed with, well ex desided to take to to final hering witch was today to fight it, im working so not entitaled to legal aid, ex working living with now partner that works but reduced hours and didnt declaire living with new partner so was able to get legal aid, was told to file report to the court witch i did but cafcas officer said keep it to the point, dont write to much and dont be to damming on ex as my s7 report says what it needs to so the court will listen to my report, and she said i will have nothink to worry about,
well i went to see a solisitor about getting repisenation for today and they wanted 800.00 for just today with i thought was too much to pay as cafcas report was in my favor and cascaf said court wouldnt change things.
well walked into court reprsenting myself, ex sat there with solisitor and a top barrister paid for by legal aid,
well judge ask why i wasnt represented,and i exsplayed that 800,00 was too much for me to pay and as cafcas report stated things should stay the same he looked at me and said well thats a poor jugement on your part.....
juge then said i read all statements and ive not going to go though them all today as i feel this could be sorted out between partys,so go out the court and come back in an hour, we did that and we sored new contact out to suit ex s new working hours, alternite weekend contact and 2 nights though the week on other week, so 5 nights contact every 2 weeks, 10 nights every 28 nights, i wasnt happy letting ex having midweek comtact as felt kids should be in a rutine school night but was backed into a corner to agree, but ex realied they wasnt going to get residence order so was pushing shired residence, her barrister managed to minipulate cascaf offices into changing her mind on share care , we went back into courtand her barrister told court cafcas agreed to share resedence now, even though she had put in her report that she didnt agree to share care. well juge wouldnt let me go though ex statment , all we could do is cross exsamine cafcas officer witch i did, i said shes changed her mind on her report she wrote and that wasnt fair and that she had told me not to put much in my report as hers covered every thing in my favor, i made it clear that if ther was any issued with the s7 report then i would of paid for representation. judge ruled that share resendce is the best think to do as cafcas officer was NOW recomeneding it, [all because she was mimipulated by a top barrister].....surley this cannot be dont, i have 28 days to appieal, any advices would be much appricated.
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nwcs · 24/01/2013 22:44
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