18 months ago we left our home town and moved to a village within the same county... new schools for the dc, shortly followed by a new job for me... anyway, loads of changes have happened within our lives. my elder daughter missed her friends like crazy and was quite traumatised by the move.
dh and i were convinced that the move was for the best. financial necessity forced the sale of the house and my dh and i decided to embrace this change and find a cheaper new home within a community with a slower pace of life.
for months i have been singing the praises of the new community that we live in, which on paper is the ideal place for us.
today i stumbled across some old pics of the old house and dc in xmas shows at their old school. it has hit me like a thunderbolt how how i miss my old life. i feel like i have been trapped on an impossibly busy treadmill of work and study since we moved, and have also agonised about how my dc are settling.
now that the dust is settling on these many changes in our lives, it is occurring to me that i dont recognise my life any more. i am only just starting to reflect properly about how i feel about my new life. i have made new 'friends' but dont feel like i really belong here.
i cant tell my mum how i feel as she has just moved to be near us.
i cant tell dh as i have a slightly obsessive streak and he'll worry that i'm getting a bee in my bonnet about moving back.
i feel like i just have to accept that this is my lot and that i have made a decision that i must now stick with.
i have much to be grateful for and no real problems as such but i just feel a bit sad.
anyone been through similar changes and settled after a while?
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Kob72 · 25/01/2012 17:35
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