DD is an absolutely lovely child, but as an only has not had many opportunites to learn about/practise sharing, taking turns, negotiation, compromise, letting someone else direct the games, conflict resolution, etc.
Obviously, some of these skills are learned/practised at school and in her dealings with me at home, but how can I help her learn to do these things with her peers?
DD (almost 8) had a friend stay for a sleepover last night. Of course, I could hear most of their conversation. I found myself regularly calling 'let X have a go', or 'isn't it X's turn now'? DD sounded (to me) quite bossy and dominant. It's good to know what you want and not be a pushover, but I also want her to learn that letting someone else have an idea needs to figure in to the friendship equation also.
At times last night it sounded as if dd simply wanted companionship and an audience rather than a playmate (busy demonstrating her new Christmas toys, rather than letting the other girl play with them too).
What can be done to help dd/any only children learn about these things?
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Earlybird · 04/01/2009 16:02
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