Hi there,
This is my first time posting a thread so pls forgive any schoolboy errors!
I am driving myself crazy thinking about whether to have a second child. Our DS was born 2 1/2 years ago following assisted conception and, despite two further attempts I haven't conceived. DH and I agreed that we would only try once (even tho we did do two) and that, if it didn't happen, so be it.
But I now find that I am struggling to let go of the fact that I'm never going to have another child. Every month I think, maybe, this month, it could happen, though I know deep down that it isn't (although we are an 'unexplained fertility' statistic, I've been off the pill since June 2004}.
I do dread the thought of the first 3 months of hell (I had an emergency C section plus post natal infection to add to my woes), but hate the thought of my DS being an only child.
Every single month my decision swings and I'm feel like I'm slowly going nuts. My fertility nurse thinks that I'm actually struggling with letting go of my fertility, which I agree with.
To cap it all, I feel as if my time is running out (my 40th is fast approaching) though everyone (including my fertility specialist) tells me it's not too late.
I would love to hear from anyone in a similar position. How do I get over this?
Thanks.
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Butty69 · 17/10/2008 21:22
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