I'm pretty sure we are one and done for loads of reasons
But my brain keeps playing out the future I imagined with 2 children
Sometimes I think it looks rosy other times I think oh no!
For example today I was thinking how lucky we are having just one child no more baby days with no sleep and stress. We can get up and do anything we want and it's good financially and for our relationship. Then I think but what if in the future our dc is lonely ( he is 7) but then I think he has loads of friends and we can have lots of social gatherings with his friends and their parents
Then I think what if in the future when dc is a teen/ young adult we are lonely! instead of this larger family I had imagined dc goes off and it's just me and dh. Then I think no dc might bring all his mates back and his girlfriend and we will have a great time
Then I think what about me.. would I like another baby and I think how gorgeous they are and how quickly our dc has grown up and how I would like to do that again and then I think but would I cope with all that again?
We are very blessed to have our one child but these niggles are very frustrating!
How do you make peace with it?
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chied3 · 02/05/2019 18:52
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