Hi all. I had my little boy 5 years ago after years of unsuccessful TTC and eventual ivf - we were very lucky it worked first time. I have loved the last 5 years and always hoped to try for more - I got 10 frozen embryos from treatment.
BUT I've had health problems over the last few years, we love our family of three, finances are better than they've ever been and we've got a great work-life balance sorted. I had one failed FET last year and am about to have another but feel sick at going through this again - the drugs, the side effects, the emotional turmoil. I want someone to make the decision for me about what to do; ridiculous as no one can! OH is happy to try one more time but then thinks we should call it a day and accept what we're lucky to have.
I'm 37 so technically could keep having treatment using frozen embryos for another few years yet. My head wants to stop but my heart won't let me! I love what we have now but equally can't bear the thought of giving up on the dream of having a second baby. Then at other times I feel like it's just a bit of broodiness about babies due to my DS getting older, but all babies have to get older!
Sorry for the rambling, just wanted to put my thoughts down. How do you make the decision to stay as a one-child family?!
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ditherdorothy · 25/09/2018 12:34
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