Hi all
I only had one dd up until last year when basically got pregnant with her on/off dad - basically we have a turbulent relationship but he's the only one I've ever been with
Anyway we had our first when we were young and I was completely put off having another . Had bad PND and emotionally/financially just was put off . Had to go part time at uni n didn't do as well as I hoped
Anyway now have second dd and first one is now 10 so basically a ten year age gap, it's just hard. In lots of ways, things like going to playgroups in summer hols, ten year old is bored, is at the stage where she's trying to act grown up into boys, phones, fortnite etc,
I just feel for her as she always wanted a sibling, but obv a few years back would have been easier now it's just weird. She's also become like a mother hen to baby which don't get me wrong I love and it's so helpful and nice but I just don't wanna ruin her childhood
Is anyone else in this situation with a. Ten year age gap? Two kids? Anything I can do to make it easier for older dd?
Sometimes I feel she's feeling abandoned and because I have such a good bond with baby (unlike when she was a baby) I feel guilty,
I just wondered if anyone else has same issues/worries and how everyone else handles the situation
Thanks
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IsabellaMoltisantixx · 26/08/2018 23:20
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