this is my first post on here. Im a single mum with a daughter who's 2. I split up with my ex boyfriend whos the dad.
He has been messaging me recently and wants to get back together and try it agen and be a family.
I always wanted family and never wanted to be a one kid family or a single mum with a kid that doesnt grow up with there dad. I just don't know if he is serious about getting back together or if i can trust him or not.
I think only you can really know because only you know him.
How long ago and why did you split up? (You don't have to post if you don't want to but just stuff to think about)
There are loads of single parent one child parents who are completely happy - don't feel as though you are doing your DD any kind of a disservice because you really aren't. I'm sure you are an amazing mum.
Does he have joint custody?
If you do get back together it could work out really well or not you can't really tell.
Is he the kind of person who means what they say or does he just like messing people around?
Even if you don't get back together it doesn't mean you'll be single forever.