Hi im really hoping can get some advice and help on father contact and the other exoeriences sorry if this is long
I have a 16 month old daughter unplanned but the best thing that ever happened to me. I did not have a relationship with father im not proud to say a drunken fling . He showed signs of violence during this time but i overlooked it as someone with not much self esteem not expecting to have a child with him
On finding i was pregnant he made my life hell to threatening to get rid of child and the police were called on two occasions. I was advised to keep him of birth certificate which i did.
Since then although very stressful and dispite enduring threating behaviour throughout thr past 16 months we manged to agree contact at his mum's house as she seemed kind and trustworthy and supportive of me .more laterley even let them have her overnight with mum there.
This has all broken down with father saying going to take daughter to his girlfriends am hour and half away from where i live and when i stated to his mother my concerns with him amd threatening behaviour and criminal record she has said thinks child is at risk in my care??!!and she cam afford best lawyer in country against me.
So i stopped contact as all trust broken down now they taking me to court. i do understand it is important for my daughter to know father but to what extent to i have to tolerate thia stress and manage on my own working and brimg up my daughter with no help from father only negativity.and stress. .will court take this into account amd what will they say? Sorry for long message!
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Postmanpatsc47D · 30/12/2016 21:33
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