I have a question regarding my adult daughter and I would be grateful for some insight. My daughter is 33 and used to be very slim and healthy and over the last three years she has put on weight and is now a size 16. She is single with no children but she has a well paid job as a mortgage broker. I have noticed that lately she has been going out a lot more, drinking and staying out late and she eats a lot of junk food and no longer goes to the gym. I told her that she now looks unhealthy and that I think she makes poor lifestyle choices. Her argument is that she is an adult, she works hard, pays her own bills, mortgage etc and that her appearance shouldn't concern me. She thinks that by me stating to her that she looks unhealthy (she does, she looks very bloated and tired all the time) is rude because she doesn't want to be judged by people and she claims she still get chatted up and called beautiful etc.... is it really that bad for me to tell her she needs to change her life? She is very upset with me and is insisting I apologise for insulting her
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