DDs nursery, which appeared great when she started in the baby room at 8 months has gotten progressively worse. A bit about the setup - there are 3 under 2s rooms - one for 6 weeks - 12/14 months (once they're walking they move up), then a 12/14 months - 18 months, and then an 18 months-24 months room. Then on to 2-3s and a 3-5s rooms. Well, DD was walking just after her 1 year birthday, but didn't get moved up with her peers until she was 17 months. I went in and had a discussion about this with the Asst. Manager (Manager was on holiday) and my concern that they wanted to move her to the 12-18mo room when she was 17 mos and stating that I didn't want her to have to settle in that room to have to then move rooms again in 1-2 months. I was assured that the ages were no longer applicable as due to mums taking longer maternity leave, nearly all under 2s were same age and theat the plan for DD would be to keep her w peers in that 12-18 mo room until she was 22mos and then move her directly to the 2-3 room. Which I wasn't completely happy about, but went along with.
7 weeks later I was told by one of her new teachers that she'd be settling in the 2-3 room the next week - at 18 months! I went in and complained to the Manager and voiced my concerns about the difference in age being 18 months to 3 years in one room, as well as the fact that I felt that I had been lied to by the Asst Manager. Agreed DD would stay in current room until 21 months, as room she was in was getting filled up with babies much younger.
DD started settling in the 2-3s 2 weeks ago, and I've been less than impressed. It doesn't look like ratios have been adjusted to reflect the fact that approx 6-7 children are not yet 2 (DD is the 3rd youngest). TV seems to be used way too much - apparently it's on for the duration of the 1 hour nap time as well as from 5pm onwards(though i've been there before 5 a few nights and it's already on). General mornings I'm dropping her off to 2 teachers who are holding crying tots and barely acknowledge our arrival - probably because DD doesn't kick up a fuss. Evenings it's down to 1-2 teachers with 8-9 kids watching tv - exceot DD - we don't have a tv at home and she pays no attention of them.
Tonight was the last straw. DD (21 mos) had a tummy bug over the weekend and we kept her off nursery until today. (yesterday only 1 poo.) When I dropped her off this morning, I explicitly mentioned the tummy bug and asked that they please check her nappy often just in case. Teacher agreed. When I arrived tonight - 2 teachers - both talking to a mum picking up her child. All other children on carpet watching tv, DD sitting there crying. As I rushed to her, teacher said, "Oh she got sad when toys were put away." Asked about nappies and was told that she had had loose bm BOTH times they checked (WTF?). DD was fussy on walk home. I checked her nappy and to my horror, she is red and raw with some small raised bumps all over her nappy area. She's never had a rash like this. I am actually getting tears just htinking about how it looked. I'll be taking her to gp in morning to get prescription cream, gave her ibuprofen tonight. She screamed/cried in pain, wouldn't let me wipe it at all so I swished water over her in tub. SHe must've been left for HOURS in a dirty nappy. Took a photo as evidence, I'm going to talk to manager in morning, wondering whether to formally complain.
Sorry for the super long rant - I'm just really really upset. Feeling sick.
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So mad I feel physically ill - going to talk to manager tomorrow...(long rant, sorry!)
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rockinghertosleep · 13/10/2009 22:31
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