I use the phrase picked on over bullied as I think bullied is too stronger word for a 3.5 year old.
but DS goes to nursery 4 mornings a week 8.30-1.
before I start I should say I know my son isn't an angel, I know he is a typical 3.5 year old, but I also know he's not malicious nor would he openly hurt another child just because. as it were.
he has become best friends with a boy who is 4 in his class called X. apparently they do everything together. We had a party where X was invited also, and he was seen (by me) to be punching my child - before I could say anything the magic man chappy had told him off. Said boy was then out in the garden pushing chairs over, pulling an 18 mo harshly, and trying to tip the smoby car over while people were in it & climbing all over it.
I (as i'm sure you'll appriciate) wasn't happy with his behaviour re DS and actually thought of him as a gremlin. and decided that if they play so closely in nursery I would discuss it with them. Apparently they monitored it all day and there wa no unpleasantness DS's key worker was quite surprised at what i'd told her. (this was start of sept)
Fast forward to y'day. (DS btw has been really crying when I take him into nursery of late - he's been going about 9 months, and this has been since the summer) anyhow y'day apparently X pulled all of DS's food off of his plate at the dinner table. and was also punching him in the back.
DS told me & mum independantly. both of us said we'd talk to his key worker but DS got v upset at this and said no because X would hurt us to.
it is clearly playing on his mind, and he's a sensitive little boy. He doesn't retaliate. and doesn't tell grown ups - which i've said he should do. apparently this boy also said he was a baby, however a key worker heard y'day and said NO DS you're not a baby.
wwyd - shall I monitor it, or pull him out?
I know i'm prob being a bit PFB but I feel I have to stand up for my son.
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thesouthsbelle · 01/10/2009 08:13
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