Ds is 2.2yrs, he goes to nursery 2.5 days a week.
He is currently potty training - this is not me pushing it, i thought he's be too young, but he has different ideas. I bought a potty a while ago and he wasn't very interested. He went to my mums and his 3yr old cousin was there and he saw him use the toilet. Since that he was obsessed with "weeing and pooing like x". Sooo, last thursday after picking him up from nursery at 12.30 i put him in pants and he didn't have a single accident for 5 days. I put him in pull ups to go out because i was sure it was too good to be true but he never wet them.
On tues he was back at nursery and my dh sent him wearing a pull up and explained he'd been dry for 4 days. I picked him up at 5.30 and he had been dry all day. Yesterday i picked him up and i asked how he'd been with potty and the girl said "oh, he hasn't bothered all day" I got him home and he wqas wearing a proper nappy (with tabs - not one i'd sent) and he seemed really down and disinterested in the toilet/potty.
Dh dropped him off today and emphasized the fact he had been doing really well and please use pull ups not proper nappies because we think that is confusing him! They said sure. I just picked him up at 12.30 and he's got another 'babies' nappy on and wet again.
Apparently he's the first in his room to be potty training and i get the feeling they think it's a case of oh he's weeing on the potty occasionally, and not taking it seriously. Perhaps they think i'm pushing it early but he's done so well and it feels like they've undone it! One problem is when dh drops him off, it's in a 'holding room' downstairs because it's 8am and when more kids get there they go off to their rooms. So the message is being passed on the his workers if you get me. AIBU to call them and speak to them again. AND i think if i can get him to go dry again until next tues just send him in pants with changes of clothes? Then they'll have to make more of on effort with it because they won't want him having accidents.
He is my pfb and i don't really know the protocol here.
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mamakim · 24/09/2009 14:35
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