Ds has been potty training for just over a week. Last week I sent him in in pants, as he was doing so well at home, but it generated a LOT of washing for me (he was having 5-6 accidents at nursery, so I would have 5-6 pairs of pants to wash + trousers) so I this week I've sent him in pull-ups, which is not ideal but I can live with. Both today and yesterday he has come home in a nappy, which has been soiled.
I know that he has better control than that - I do accept that accidents are going to happen, but when he's at home he manages to use the potty 80% of the time, and he's getting better. The only time I use pull-ups are in the car, for a journey of more than half an hour.
Nursery know that ds has very sensitive skin, and that if he isn't changed out of a soiled nappy straight away he gets very sore. They keep asking for metanium to slather on him - which does work - but it shouldn't be necessary if they would just change him out of a soiled nappy/pull-up ASAP.
In addition to the nappy/potty training issues, ds has been having issues with another boy in his room. I think they are friends, but - as is very common with dc of this age - they tend to bounce off each other. Yesterday, ds came home with a massive bite mark on his cheek, and I had to sign an accident form which said that the assistants in the room hadn't noticed what had happened, and ds hadn't seemed upset. Well, it's a massive mark, and still marked this evening, so I find it very difficult to believe that ds made no reaction at all. He also had a bite mark on his arm, which was because he had been bitten after he snatched a toy off another child.
Now, I know that kids bite, and these things happen. I'm not stressing over this - and if it's not ds this week, it will be next week IYSWIM. But, he's come home today with another bite mark on his other arm, and no accident form, and no-one seems to have noticed. I'm really, really cross about this - I'm not a precious parent who freaks out every time their baby is damaged. I've been very understanding when ds has come home with quite severe injuries (bites) in the past, and although they haven't told me who's done it, it seems to be 2 specific children from what ds says. I'm very worried that the nursery assistants don't seem to be noticing if ds is being bitten, not because I'm particularly worried about the bites per se (although obviously I'm sad for ds) but because if the children who are biting aren't being pulled up for it then they're going to keep doing it, aren't they?
I really need to get my thoughts in order before I phone the manager tomorrow, I'm not going to put a formal complaint in, or anything like that - but I need to figure out exactly what I want to happen and how I'm going to achieve it.
Sorry it's so long - must go and finish cooking tea now, but will check back later. TIA!
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TAFKAtheUrbanDryad · 15/09/2009 18:38
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