Regretfully, I only looked at two nurseries before signing up DD to one of them. She's now been there for two months (almost 14 months old) and although is very happy there, I'm having niggles and just wanted opinions as to whether I'm being precious which everyone overcomes or are these genuine concerns.
Firstly, during her two week settling in period, her keyworker went on holiday for half the time.
They weren't keen on DD using a doidy cup and I had to really stick to my guns on this one.
They give semi-skimmed milk to the children. Brought this up with the baby room manager and now DD gets full fat (or so they tell me).
All children drink water with their breakfast and only at my insistence did DD get milk.
When DD first started, I was always had informal chats with staff as to how DD slept, ate, etc. now nothing unless I ask.
Recently, there seems to be more and more agency staff used in the baby room which I think makes the babies feel more unsettled (though my DD doesn't seem to be perturbed by this). It creates a really odd atmosphere because the permanent staff don't seem to talk to the agency staff, who in turn seem clueless (ie when a baby cries, they don't rush over to distract, see what's going on, etc. they just carry on sitting there talking amongst themselves).
They don't have a separate sleeping room. This is perhaps my biggest niggle and although I was fully aware of this before DD started, I didn't realise how much it would impact on DD who is a very light sleeper. She has gone from napping for 2 hours after lunch(which she still does at home on weekends) to sleeping for only 45 minutes, leading to rattiness when I pick her up at 3.30.
I've been comparing with parents in RL and they've all said how nursery has been great for their child, how they sleep better, eat better, etc. With DD, though she's always eaten well (and nursery encourage her BLW), her sleep has got worse. I'm feeling really guilty that I've not sent DD to the best possible nursery.
I'm going to visit all nurseries in the area but in the meantime, wanted to get opinions on whether I'm being anal or are all nurseries like this?
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FeelingDeviant · 21/07/2008 10:20
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