To cut a long story short, my DS's (3)nursery closed just before Easter and I have had a real struggle finding another that does the hours I need. Finally found one and DS had a settling in session today. I stayed with him for most of it and was really unhappy with what I saw. Firstly, when we arrived the 2 staff didn't introduce themselves to me or DS and disappeared for a good five minutes to talk to other parents at the door, leaving me and DS standing around not knowing what to do on our own with 10 other children (the reception is down the corridor from the main room, so they were nowhere near the kids). They don't know who I am so should not have left me on my own with kids, plus surely the children should never be left entirely on their own without a member of staff around.
Secondly, although there were 2 members of staff working for 10 kids, one of them is the proprietor and is well into her 70's and is not really capable of getting out of her chair, let alone rushing to the loo with one of them or being on hand quickly if needs be. Apparently there are usually three staff but no explaination was given about the third not being there today.
The children who went off for a sleep after lunch were very happy to do so but were put in a separate room with the door closed. I was sitting right outside the door and couldn't hear anything through it, so doubt anyone else could have either.
One little girl spent the whole three hours crying and was virtually ignored, not out of malice, but because the one able bodied carer had her hands full and didn't have the time to give her a cuddle.
I generally felt that the place is understaffed and the children not watched closely enough as a result.
I have really struggled to find a place that fits in with my working hours and really have no alternative, but am now feeling very worried about sending DS to this place. I have friends who send their children there and are really happy with it so I don't know if I am just being precious, or whether I should really take note of my gut instinct. i know that no one can care for our children as well as we can, but was so happy with the last place that this is such a let down. DS seemed to enjoy himself and told me he liked the place.
If I had an alternative there is no way that I would send DS here, but I really, really don't and have to go back to work 3 days a week from Monday.
Any advice greatly appreciated.
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Katie3677 · 27/03/2008 16:33
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