My daughter who is 3 started nursery. She had 2 one hour sessions and was described as quiet but came home happy. Then on Monday she did 2.5 hours she had a few tears and got over it. Teacher didn't realise she bumped her head with another child hence the crying but still came home happy. Went on Tuesday and came home happy. She got ready to go on Wednesday but I was a bit worried because her cold was getting worse since the last Thursday. I was told she was upset for a long time the day before (but nobody mentioned to me until I told them if I could pick her up early if she wasn't feeling well).
I'm really proud of her that she went to nursery when she wasn't 100% without a fuss but I shouldn't have sent her in. She's happy to go each day and comes back happy too. Her teacher said she's really engaging during circle time etc but 'struggles' when the kids are asked to pick toys and play alone for 1.5 hours. She plays independently at home and even with other kids. So it's strange to me. The only thing I can think that could affect her is lockdown and my pregnancy. But even then shes been okay. Really excited to go nursery no crying etc.
My DD told me she was told to pick a toy and play with it and the teacher ignored her and went outside. She said she wanted her mummy when she was crying (because she wanted to be comforted) and mummy didn't come. I told her mummy can come at home time to pick her up. I honestly feel sad for her because she gets up everyday happily ready to go. I haven't sent her since so that she heals from her cold. They've asked me to send her in for one hour till she gets used to it. Any advice? I can't put my finger on it. If she hates nursery so much she wouldn't want to go in the mornings or cry when I collected her but none of that. In the initial one hour sessions which introduced kids to nursery she did say mummy it was soo boring. I wonder if she feels bored.
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faithfulbird · 27/09/2020 02:01
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