With strong emotional bonding or secure attachment, your child will have the confidence to share every detail of their life and you will be able to be more involved in your kids’ daily life. You need to spend time with them as much as you can. You can do some activities together, such as reading, drawing, playing together. While doing these activities you can sometimes let them lead to grow their confidence and to make the activity more entertaining. You need to be responsive and sensitive with their every need.