I'm prepared to be flamed for this but here goes..
There's a worker in my childs nursery who makes me uncomfortable and I'm not alone in feeling this as know others who think he is very unusual and creepy. Don't want to give details as will be outing.
I'm a survivor of abuse and I know this is partly to blame if not entirely for my feelings although I've seen other male workers there that I don't make me feel comfortable.
My child has changed rooms recently so when I went to pick her up she was alone in a room with just him and it just triggered something inside me and I couldn't stop crying when I got home as I also think he done her nappy too and realised I really wasn't okay with this.
I know this is my issue but I really can't help how I feel he gives me the creeps and I have this horrible gut feeling about him but I don't know what to do as I know its 2020 and people shouldn't have to deal with discrimination in the work place and that he would of had all the checks done but that didn't protect me when I was younger so that doesn't reassure me.
I'm looking for advice from nursery workers or anyone else that's been in this situation.
I feel like I'll just have to take her out as it really was an intense reaction on my part and not something I know how to resolve right now.
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Needadviceplz · 07/01/2020 15:52
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