Hi all, bit desperate really so any advice gratefully received.
DD is nearly 10 mo and has been at nursery for around 6 weeks, 3 days a week. Her big brother is there too in the toddler room; he started at 7.5 mo.
So... she's not settling. The nursery had only alluded to it until recently (although she's had a few bugs since starting so has had a few days off), but a couple of days ago the managed spoke to me in great earnest. DD is sad all day. Cries all the time. Even when eating. She's never known a baby like her, they've tried everything and they don't know what to do!
Long and short of it is we have a couple of weeks to try and improve things or me and dp, both with our full time jobs, need to find some alternative that doesn't see her scream from dawn til dusk
Truth is we didn't do a proper job settling her to be honest; she started straight in with full days; they couldn't get round to scheduling her settling in days, but I just thought if she was finding it a bit much they'd call me to collect her early like that had when ds first started. But they didn't. I didn't realise things were anywhere near as bad as they are.
Any advice please? I stayed with her this morning until 11ish; she mostly cried even with me there. Unless I was actually holding her. I think she's overwhelmed by the environment? Honestly though, she has days when she's like that at home too, although at home she will usually roll/crawl around on the floor and entertain herself with toys. At nursery she wouldn't even be on the floor - they didn't even know she was mobile!
My plan is to stay with her for half the day most days and see if she can start to feel more comfortable there having been able to relax when I'm there with her (hopefully). She used to go ballistic at the grandparents too when she first met them, but she's fine with them now and can be left for babysitting etc.
Does this sound like a plan? Oh god, what are we going to do??
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10 mo STILL not settling at nursery - long
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RatRolyPoly · 05/06/2018 13:44
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