New to Mumsnet but could really use some advice. I have a 3 year old DS who has a school nursery place in September. He currently goes to a childminder who is brilliant, works with an assistant and is a qualified teacher and she has bought him on so much in the past 2 years. We recently had twins 9 weeks ago and DS is struggling a bit (as am I) with the transition from being an only child. He goes to CM 4 days a week still at the mo while I am on mat leave as I struggle to entertain him with 2 newborns and he has friends at the CM. I know things with settle eventually but I am worried that giving him another upheaval in his life so soon in terms of sending him to a different nursery might be too much for him. Everything has changed at home for him and the CM is the one thing that has stayed consistent so I don’t know if it is fair to turn his world upside down again so soon. His two best friends at CM will be going to a different nursery in September so will no longer be there and he will be the oldest child in that setting. But as a qualified teacher she will be able to do lots of EYFS stuff with him one to one while the younger ones nap and when not napping he also likes to play with the ones a bit younger than him so I still think he’d be happy. I really am in two minds as I want the best for him but struggling to know what that is. Does anyone have a similar experience? The twins really have changed everything for him and we try to have one on one time with him but it’s very hard. I worry that another change will be one too many in such a short space of time but DH is worried that if he doesn’t go to nursery then he will find it harder to make friends in reception because they will have all been together for a year before him. It is very likely we will get a place at the school as in catchment area. Please help. I’m losing my marbles over this one!
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Batfacetrooper · 09/05/2018 09:17
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