Hello all,
A while back we were told that DS could no longer stay at Nursery as weaning uncovered a severe fish allergy (requires epi-pen) and the Nursery were not willing to make changes to create a safe environment for him.
We thought this was just a one off occurrence.
Roll on a few months later. DS is happily settled in with a great Childminder but as we are moving and as he is getting more sociable we thought we would put him on a few Nursery waiting lists closer to my work or our new house.
But the 3 nurseries we have looked round have all has the same response of the 1st nursery; they aren't willing to look after a child with a sever allergy.
Some of the reasons have been:
- No one is Epi-pen trained (couldn't they train someone whilst we waited for a place?)
- As children self serve and self feed they cant guarantee fish wont come into contact with him (are they unable to wash children after they have eaten and have DS eating seperate or perhaps just reserve fish for days DS wouldn't attend?)
- Fish is a vital food source for some children at the nursery and they do not want to isolate them by having someone with a fish allergy on site (isn't this isolating my child?)
I did ask how comes they are able to make their nurseries nut-free zones yet not do the same for my DS (especially when currently there was no one with a nut allergy in attendance at the nurseries - I asked!)
Perhaps I am being unreasonable - just in shock at how hard living with an allergy is going to be for DS!
Any advice on how to tackle this situation? Is there a way we can help our preferred nursery become allergy friendly, e.g. pay for the epi-pen training (didn't even realise this was a thing btw, it is very easy to use, was only shown once by a Dr!) or come up with meal alternative plans for them?