Hi everyone,
My just turned one year old son has just started nursery 3 days a week, he has just done his first 3 days. He has been ok at drop offs, fine on the first day, ok the second and a bit unsettled on the third. He cried when I picked him up which I've heard is all normal. He is eating well and staff say he is happy and settling in well.
However, he has only napped for 40 minutes each day. At home he has 2 naps (on me - I know, I know...) and has between 1.5 hours and 2 hours in total.
He is clearly tired but staff can't get him to sleep in the morning or get him to sleep longer in the afternoon. He is then very grumpy when He gets home and very tired. His evening sleep which used to be good (not perfect, but good) has become a disaster. He wakes crying during the night and is awake for the day between 5 and 5.30.
He is also very grumpy and clingy during the day and crying much more that ever before. I understand that it's because he's tired and having separation anxiety and doesn't really understand what's going on yet. I expected this, but it makes me so sad.
In your experience does sleep get better? I know it's my fault as I've let him sleep on me, but I struggled for so long to get him to sleep in his cot for naps I gave up as I can get him to sleep in 5 minutes and he will sleep well. If I could go back I'd change that now...
How long for the anxiety and crying at home to stop? I just want him to be happy, and help him feel settled. I am well aware that we are in the very, very early stages and it will take time.
Any help appreciated.
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Summerdays2014 · 14/01/2017 19:33
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