Before I go any other, I just want to say I'm not judging anyone who sends their baby/toddler to nursery. I'm just personally very worried about sending my little boy, who is 10 months. I found a nursery I liked when DS was tiny and now I'm due to go back to work in two weeks I'm beside myself. I (stupidly or sensibly, I'm not sure) researched nurseries and found lots of articles and discussions saying they are damaging to the development of under twos and only have negative impacts, with the positives only becoming apparent for over twos (language, socialisation etc). The effect is apparently more pronounced for boys, with increased rates of aggression and other issues 😓.
I feel that I can't willingly send him knowing all this but financially I have to return to work. The silver lining is it's three days a week term time only but now I'm thinking a childminder would be preferable but I've rung round and think it's too late to secure a place with one. Can anyone comment on:
How a baby under one coped with nursery?
If anyone thinks a childminder is preferable and I'll continue the search.
DS is very clingy and will only go to DH, me or either grandmother. It breaks my heart to think of him distressed.
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Blondie87 · 03/03/2016 15:44
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