I'm back at work next week, two days a week, Tuesday's and Friday's. My little boy is 12 months old and has had two settling in days at nursery, an hour with me and an hour without. At the end of the hour he was upset and so glad to see me, it broke my heart. Yesterday he went for 4.5 hours, my husband called a couple of times, they said he was upset but distracted by toys, and he couldn't hear him crying in the background (speaking directly to the room) when we went to pick him up I couldn't hear him crying but as I opened the door and before he saw me he started to cry, and again was so pleased to see me. I put him down just to get his coat on and he sobbed. He has another day this week and I'm terrified. Today he's been clingy, crying when I'm out of sight, more jumpy and scaring easier than normal (dog barking at postie etc) now at the back of my mind I'm imagining horrors not helped by a mum at playgroup asking me if I'd seen the YouTube video of babies being abused at daycare I feel like the worst mum in the world but have no choice at all but to return to work, and this nursery has a really good rep within the area and the staff aeem really nice. Am I being a silly overprotective hormonal first time mum? Did anyone else have these (probably irrational) fears? And is this behavioue from my lb normal and a phase that will pass?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Find nursery advice from other Mumsnetters on our Nursery forum.
Nurseries
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.