Hello all, just a bit of advice really on what you would expect from your nursery in similar situation. I walked in on a staff member screaming (not exaggeration) at my son who was sat inches away from her for the reason that he was in a tug of war with another boy with a book and was apparently about to hit the boy although I didn't witness this. My son who is 3 but young for his age (struggling with speech) instantly broke down in tears and when he saw me came running over sobbing uncontrollably. I was in too much shock and anger to say anything and walked out the nursery with my son and ended up sobbing in the car park. My husband rang to complain shortly afterwards.
The next day I was told an investigation would take place and in the meantime she would be removed from the room but would be with other children. Two weeks later and I take my son to nursery to be told they would retrain all staff on how to deal with bad behaviour and that the staff member in question is back in my sons room. I refused to take him in as I said I wasn't comfortable in leaving him with her as I no longer trusted her. As an alternative they said my son could move rooms however I'm cautious as were in the process of moving house at the end of January and did not want to disrupt my son twice in a month changing rooms and then pre schools! I don't think it's unreasonable to ask that she be moved out of the room until we leave as I don't see why our son should be disrupted when he's not done anything wrong.
If the same situation had of happened in a place of work between two adults the person in question would be suspended and face disciplinary but apparently because it's against a child who can't defend themselves it's brushed under the carpet as a training issue! I'm worried about what has gone on without me seeing as as my son doesn't talk much there would be no way of me knowing!
Am I being unreasonable and what else would anyone suggest. I'm worried that she will continue to act in the manner when we have left and other children may suffer, it feels like a form of bullying to some degree! Is there a regulatory body who should be made aware? Ofsted?
Thanks!!
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littleladybird14 · 30/12/2015 15:16
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