DD is 3 and half years old, been going to nursery since she was 8 months. She's never been fond of going to nursery as she prefers to be with me doing things. However recently she has been very clingy when leaving her, even crying some mornings, which is put of character. When I pick her up her keyworker always says she has had a good day, been playing with her friends and eaten all her food etc. DD says shes had a good day but never goes into detail even if I ask. We moved in September so just chalked it down to change as nursery always say she's had a great day etc and I've not been concerned.
We had parents evening recently and keyworker tells me DD is withdrawn, doesn't talk at nursery, doesn't play with the other children, sits by her self looking at books, hasn't eaten her food for months, cries if forced into group play and hasn't spoken to keyworker for 2 weeks, nothing, not a word. I'm shocked as keyworker always tells me the opposite when I collect her and now its quiet apparent DD is miserable.
I've asked her if she is happy, she says yes but I don't believe her. She avoids questions about her day and doesn't talk about nursery or her friends anymore.
DD is happy at home, talkative, running around having fun, she is shy around people she doesn't know, but not subdued as what I now believe she is a nursery.
On top of this they have asked me not to take her in on the 2nd January as they don't want to work and only 3 kids are due in. They still want me to pay for the day and I still have to go to work so I told them no. They've ask me to 'sleep on it' and let them know next week. This is the 2nd time in a few months they have asked me not to bring her in because they want a day off and I think its completely unreasonable and putting me in an awkward position.
AIBU to think that DD keyworker is pants and the nursery are complete rubbish? Thinking of moving her now as lost all confidence in them but for 2days a week for 9 months until she starts school unsure if this will do her more harm than good? Any advice welcome please
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baloo1985 · 21/11/2014 18:47
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