I'm a single Mum but Daddy is involved.
Our children are 1 and 3. They attend a good nursery now but we are moving, so we need to find a new one. We went to visit one this week and I'm worried about what we found. I want your thoughts please Mumsnet.
We were met at the wide-open front door by a senior staff member. She took my name but not Daddy's. I made it clear right at the start I was a single parent, so there's this man there and she doesn't even have his name.
Our children's security concerns us. Bad (albeit rare) things have happened to children in our extended family and we like to see good child protection. So Daddy decided to casually break away and wander off while the staff member was talking to me, to see if he could.
He managed to become alone, unsupervised with one or more children (not including our own, who stayed with me) 3 times, in a 25 minute visit. Each time for 3-5 minutes. Each time he and at least one child were not within line of sight from any member of staff or me. Each time he exited the situation himself, he was not retrieved by staff.
To make it worse, he was carrying his mobile phone in his top pocket, where it was quite visible. No one mentioned that either (it doesn't have a camera, but you can't tell that without taking it out of the pocket first).
The potential was sky high. We know he was just checking, but they don't. He could have done anything at all. They don't even have his name, they didn't ask. 3-5mins is a long time.
Obviously our children will not be enrolling.
Mumsnet... is it just me, am I just paranoid because of our unfortunate family history, or is this really, really frightening? I need a second opinion.
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