I have NCed for this. Please be gentle as I'm upset having to write this. DD is 10 months and has been going to nursery for several months now. She seems happy and settled and we had no concerns.
In the last few weeks a staff member has returned to work after long term illness. Since staff member's return DD has been very red and swollen around her groin area, especially round her labia. Her clothes are being changed every day. Both of these are new and have started in last 2 weeks. She is not red at weekends and never needs her clothes changed either.
I have a bad feeling that is hard to put into words but essentially I have concerns that something inappropriate is happening. I have no idea what to do about this. I also don't know if I am totally overreacting. Is it possible that she is just getting nappy rash? And if she is getting it mid week only does that mean they just aren't changing her enough? She never had it when she was younger but I don't know if that can change as they get older or if it's something to do with teething.
It is an awkward situation as the nursery manager knows my husband and DH thinks I'm worrying about nothing and it's just nappy rash. Because of a previous job with vulnerable adults I am probably more hyperconscious than other people about abuse. Honestly don't know if I'm being PFB and fretting over nothing but don't want to fail DD if something is happening. What is the best way to handle this? Or am I worrying about nothing?
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feelingworried · 24/06/2013 18:26
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