would really appreciate your thoughts on this. this is what happened. i was picking ds up from the nursery and let myself in through the security door (only entrance in / out and parents type in a 4 digit code to access). there was a man obviously on his way out as i went in and he was with one of the nursery girls. Just behind them was the manager. A few moments later i heard the manager say to the girl "how did that man get in?" !!!! I went and got ds but was distracted by the fact that he had an infected ear and got wrapped up in phoning the doctor etc. Now i am back home i am utterly obsessed. That comment suggests to me that he was not a parent and shouldn't have been there. I think he probably got access because parents often hold the door open for each other, and probably presume anyone at the door is a parent (I have already suggested a sign asking parents not to do this as what then is the point of a security entry system). Anyway, i have decided i am going to speak to the manager tomorrow, tell her what i overheard and ask what course of action they are taking. What do you think i should exepct? i was thinking that if she has no explaination for who he was and why he was there then it should be reported to the police (surely that is predatory behaviour??) i also think they should take immediate steps to enhance security. I kind of hope i am over-reacting but suspect i am not. I can feel my blood running cold at the thought of someone dodgy in the vicinity of ds and don't want to leave him there tomorrow. any comments appreciated
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vitomum · 24/05/2006 19:46
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