My DS1 has been at this nursery since he was baby - moved up through the rooms as he got older and is now in the nursery room, where he is the second youngest, at 3years old. He has always been happy at that nursery, but since moving into this room, has had a number of issues. Many of them are usual "3 year old behavioral issues" like slapping or shouting no, throwing tantrums etc. However, recently he has really started to act out (pinching and scratching nursery carers), saying he doesn't like nursery and sometimes cries in the morning when he has to go. I should point out that he also occasionally tantrums when home with us, and they have recently picked up a bit so it's not all purely nursery-based!
Nursery carers have also said that he plays a lot independently (e.g. playing by himself in the corner) and often refuses to join in group activities. I have a call scheduled with the nursery on Friday to discuss but just wanted to see what the consensus would be on how much of this is "normal" behaviour for a 3 yo and how much of it may be down to him being unhappy? Really worried as he's usually such a lovely little boy and it makes me very sad to see him having a tough time :(. Nursery are being great - very reassuring and have tried different strategies to manage his behaviour etc. They're keeping an observation diary of what triggers his outbursts etc. and I hope this might help. Sorry for the essay but keen to hear if anyone else has had similar experiences!
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webminx · 24/04/2013 19:12
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