went to get ds (3.5) from nursery today. another parent let me in so I wasn't buzzed in by staff. when I opened the inner door first thing I saw was ds sitting all by himself on a chair in the corner, not playing or singing, just sitting looking out of the window (dark outside) and swinging his legs. he looked sad and lonely.
I went in and he ran up to me, he was a bit tearful. We went round the corner to where his key worker was playing with 3 or 4 other children. I probably came across a bit brusque as I said straight off "ds was just sitting all by himself in the corner! is everything ok?". she was quite defensive and said "he was here a moment ago, it was only a few seconds ago that he went off". I left it there, just said "oh he just looked a bit lonely", and she didn't respond to that.
I don't expect them to be looking at or playing with my child every second of the day, but it did feel as though ds was sitting all alone and no-one was making an effort to get him to join in or talk to him. I feel really sad and guilty now for leaving him there all day. he often cries and says he doesn't want to go but usually gets over that quickly and seems to enjoy himself moderately though he's not wildly happy I know. But that's because he would prefer to be with me 24/7. Not sure why I'm posting, I don't think there's any sort of complaint to be made. Just wanted to get it off my chest I suppose.
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felt so sad a& guilty when I went to pick ds up from nursery today
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AlphaSchmalpha · 09/11/2010 22:16
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