Hi, I'm new here and haven't posted before. Just need to get something off chest as I don't want to speak to my friends or family until I sort my head out.
I have been thinking of separating from my hubby with a very long time, but keep putting it off. He is a very selfish man who has alcohol issues, drinks maybe 3 nights a week, not a huge amount but once he starts he has to keep drinking until he falls asleep, he's not abusive but just goes into his own world, using headphones on the phone. I know he looks at alot of porn which is ironic as we haven't had sex since my daughter was concieved over two and half years ago.
He also does absolutely nothing around the house, no cooking, cleaning and diy even though as I'm self employed some weeks I work full time hours. Anytime I say anything to him he Stonewalls me and refuses to answer, then I lose my temper and I hate fighting in front of kids. I'm worried about effect it will have on them seeing us like this.
Also at moment I'm really worried about money, earning nothing at the moment as business is so quiet, he earns a decent wage but refuses to have a joint account, he pays mortgage, pays bin charges and contribute s towards food and I pay all other bill, kids clothes etc.
So I don't want to be still stuck in this situation a year from now and just need to bite the bullet. He has no interest in going to counselling, just adamant he staying put.
Any advice?, Thanks
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Jubelle · 31/01/2018 15:28
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