Pregnant and sad :-(

[powerhousemummy]

Hi I'm on my second planned pregnancy. Nearly 8 weeks. Already suffering with pain and bleeding on top of the usual symptoms. I have a nearly 5 year old too.

I feel really down in the dumps. I'm exhausted and fed up of being pregnant already plus the pain gets me down and I've been told not to exercise because of the bleeding which is very hard is im a PT!

Anyone else feel so rubbish???? I can't remember feeling like this with my son. Just want to sleep and not speak or see anyone!

[JiltedJohnsJulie]

Poor you, that sounds really tough. Have they said why you have pain and are bleeding?

Have you found the Antenatal Club for your due month?

Welcome to MN too and congratulations on your pg

[powerhousemummy]

Hi no they could see why I was bleeding especially so much! However they've spotted a 12mm uterine fybroid at the front of my uterus and this may cause it? No real answer tbh. Have said if the pain is bareable it's ok but it's not ok really is it. It's constant! I haven't joined the group no. I'd be in November.

[JiltedJohnsJulie]

I'd join the November Antenatal Group and also speak to your MW on Monday. You really need to know why you are bleeding so much and how long it is likely to last.

Have you been signed off work?

[powerhousemummy]

Hi no I went back to work today. The bleeding has now subsided however the pain hasn't. I'm due to see the midwife on Thursday. I've felt so depressed today. Snapped at everything and I've actually broke up with my boyfriend because I feel so low and everything he says or does feels like he's patronising me. I was taking 5htp prior to pregnancy for really bad pmt. this feels fifty times worse!!!! In a while I do not feel good. My training has stopped snd it was my life. My coping mechanism. It's like waiting to be hung waiting to see if I'll bleed again even after everything I've had to give up. I clearly do not want to be in this situation

[JiltedJohnsJulie]

Oh no. I've been away for a few days so only just seen your response. How are you after seeing your MW and how is your relationship?

[SlB09]

This was EXACTLY my at your point, im 16 weeks now and much much better in myself. Its taken a while and I was beginning to worry that I was depressed/something was wrong etc but I did have the odd lighter day inbetween this time. After first scan which was 13 weeksI improved and once sickness and tiredness subsided I also felt much better. Youll get there xx