Terrified of making the leap and leaving my husband
Married 25 years. Paralyzed with unhappiness and pretending everything is OK for the sake of my 2 teenagers. Husband refuses to go to counselling, having tried and hated it. Been thinking like this for about 5 years and need to talk to somebody legal as I'm fairly sure that's the sad inevitable next step. Anyone else been in my shoes? Suggestion of a good lawyer for advice?
I'm not in your situation but please don't stay together for the sake of your kids. My own mother did that and there really was nothing worse than seeing her unhappy. Big hugs though. I hope you get it sorted.