I would like to know if I am being unreasonable.
I work full time and my mum comes to my house every day to do my ironing which I pay her for. This usually isn't a problem except for when me or my husband are off work.
She doesn't seem to understand that when we are off we need or own space and when I tell her we are off so she doesn't need to come, it upsets her as she thinks we don't want to see her.
This isn't the case we just want our own space when we are off. I do try and take her shopping or out for lunch when I'm off.